Dear Diana

Real advice. Zero judgment.

Dear Diana is your personal advice column, a safe space where you can write in with your questions, struggles, or anything on your heart. Think of me as that trusted best friend who’s always honest, supportive, and here to help you navigate life’s messy moments. While this isn’t therapy, it is a place for real talk, heartfelt advice, and a little wisdom to carry you through.

Why Dear Diana Exists

I’ve spent over 25 years supporting women through life’s biggest transitions. From motherhood to menopause, I know how confusing and isolating it can feel when no one else seems to get it. Sometimes you just need someone to say, “You’re not crazy, and you’re not alone.”

While I’m a therapist, the advice shared here isn’t therapy and doesn’t create a therapeutic relationship. It’s heartfelt guidance, not clinical judgment.

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Got something on your mind? Whether it's the challenges of menopause, the whirlwind of midlife chaos, navigating relationship drama, or simply feeling a bit off, I'm here for you. Consider me your virtual BFF, ready to help you feel seen, supported, and a little less alone. We've all faced similar struggles, and remember, you're not on your own.

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Disclaimer

The content on this website is provided for informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition, addiction, or mental health issue.